This spat could have been settled amicably. But Xiaxue ignored my email sent on 23 April 9.46pm and also failed to show up in Court for mediation on 26 May 9.30am. You’ve read her loose stools side of the story. Now, here’s mine.
I don’t need a year to collect evidence, and I took less than a week to put this together. Hence, I call it ‘The Small Xiaxue And Nuffnang Bloggers Exposé’ as opposed to The Big Gushcloud Exposé. ;)
Because this is still the longest blogpost I’ve ever written, packed full of the PROOF that people have DEMANDED of me (including that of a top blogger who STOLE toilet paper #faithinhumanitylost), I have divided the blogpost into these 15 parts/categories so you can pick whichever ones you want to read, or read them all if you will:
General Overview:
#1: Why I Want To Respond To The ‘Loose Stools’ Blogpost & How XX Lied Under Oath
#2: How XX Harassed / Bullied Me
#3: Am I Bipolar Like She Claims?
#4: Why My “Offensive” Post Is “Still” Online
#5: That Lee Kum Kee Video And Why I’m Upset
#6: Why I Shared SMRT Ltd Feedback’s Posts Seemingly Despite A PO
#7: Plagiarism
#8: The “Top Blogger” Title
#9: Why The Need For A PO
#10: My Supposed Rude Emails to XX’s Lawyer
#11: Why I Emailed The Ministers
#12: My Version Of A Nuffnang Blogger Exposé – Ad Masking and Smearing
#13: Why I Said Her Hair Color Is Blue In My Police Report
#14: Why I Mentioned The Loose Stools
#15: WHO IS GRACE TAN? AND WHY DID XIAXUE STEAL TOILET PAPER? OMG!!!
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#1: Why do you want to respond to Xiaxue’s ‘I caused Grace Tan to have LOOSE STOOLS’ blogpost? Xiaxue has already said she’s not gonna talk about you anymore!
The short answer is this: Can you slap someone, and then say you won’t slap the person again, so he/she shouldn’t get angry at you, and mustn’t retaliate?
It doesn’t work that way.
She has done her best to humiliate me with that blogpost, ignored my email to her to remove the blogpost and its accompanying social media mentions, and aggravated the hurt and distress by promoting the post even more:
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On Instagram (*Note: SMRT Ltd Feedback cannot “vandalize” her child’s photo, but she has no problem vandalizing mine) – She is definitely not a hypocrite.
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Facebook:
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Twitter – tweet once not enough; must tweet twice:
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My email to her, and her lawyer, on 23rd April, regarding removal of the above went ignored:
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Ignored My Email & Proceeded With Aggravation: “Oh and don’t forget to read the latest blog entry!”
(Facebook)
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(Instagram)
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The even shorter answer is this: I do not trust her.
On 13 April, under oath, she swore that what is in this affidavit is true:
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On 13th April, in the affidavit, she wrote in BOLD FONT SOME MORE (scared the judge cannot see these words) “If she (Grace) had asked for me to remove whatever content she was displeased with, I would have done so”. Well, on 23rd April (just 10 days later), I emailed her regarding removal of her ‘Loose Stools’ blogpost and she ignored me, telling people once again to read the blogpost. She is definitely NOT a liar.
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13th April: “I have no intention to make any further comments on the Applicant”
(CAN SAY THIS UNDER OATH SOME MORE! I SALUTE YOU!!) By 23rd April, buay tahan and did a FULL blogpost about “the Applicant”. #WinLiaoLor #Don’tCallYouLiarAlsoDifficult
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In Conclusion, reiterate SOME MORE: “have no intentions of making any sort of offending communication (as defined by the POHA) on the Applicant henceforth”.
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Wow. What sort of absolute bullsh*t did I just read?
**Did someone LIE under oath? UH-OH!!! Hard to get out of this one. Better faster call lawyer ah!**
Our settlement terms on 15 April 2015:
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(Dear XX, wanna screenshot, screenshot the whole thing lah. Don’t cherry-pick, please.)
Since she has undertaken not to make anymore “insulting, abusive and threatening communication” about me, how do you explain this?!
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And what about me? Have I made any insulting, abusive or threatening communication about her after the PTC and settlement?
Honestly, no, I haven’t. It was more than a gentleman’s agreement, it was an undertaking before a JUDGE: I said and shared things about her that were not kind (I’d removed the pineapple blogger posts, and whatever smrt-related content she disliked), and since she has undertaken not to make any insulting, abusive or threatening communication about me, I could FOCUS on preparing for my presentations at the Malaysia Social Media Week (21st to 24th April).
In fact, when my followers commented about her, on unrelated posts that I had shared, I reserved a “no comments” stance:
19 April – before XX uploaded her ‘Loose Stools’ blogpost
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21 April – before XX uploaded her ‘Loose Stools’ blogpost
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24 April – after XX had uploaded her ‘Loose Stools’ blogpost:
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I even deleted my supporter’s comment because it might be seen as insulting and abusive towards Wendy. And I told the person to refrain from doing so again.
Now, in all fairness, tell me… am I wrong to say she has bullied me?
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#2: How exactly has Xiaxue harassed you? How did she ever bully you? (Before the Loose Stools blogpost)
First, know that the Protection from Harassment Act is to protect individuals from “words, communication or behavior (in both the online and physical world) that intentionally caused harassment, alarm or distress, causes fear or provocation of violence”, and a few other things.
What Wendy wrote about me on the facebook thread which originated from Walter Lim’s facebook post include, but are not limited to:
“I suggest you see a psychiatrist about being bipolar”
“You can also talk to the psychiatrist about you(sic) delusions of grandeur, thinking you are even mildly qualified to conduct blogging workshops or pen a blogging book when you are a nobody”
“you are an absolute psycho attention-seeking cunt”
“I look forward to seeing my post on your blog as your eyes shine brightly while you salivate”
“Is your book completely copied too?”
“you are bipolar. See a doctor”
“I will see you in court”
“raving like a madwoman”
“Yes I’m saying you are ugly”
“And yes I’m threatening you with a motherfucking lawsuit if you repost that SMRT exposé”
“tell people (all 4 of them who read your pathetic blog)” [*Editor’s note: Eh hello… if only 4 people read my blog, does it matter what exposé I repost?]
“you are clearly a little kee siao”
“You can put this episode on that embarrassing sidebar on your blog with all your mediocre achievements”
[ Just some of the “wonderful” things Xiaxue said about me ]
Why didn’t I reveal all these earlier? Well, I HAD stated that I was going to sue her for defamation right after the PO. So how can I perpetuate those defamatory statements by sharing about them on my blog? I could only share the evidence AFTER I’d brought my suit against her or if I’d decided to drop it. Like, now.
And I did decide to drop the defamation suit. WHY?
1) Interestingly enough, she claims that by MY saying she defamed me, I have also defamed her. So I received a 7-page letter of demand from her lawyer on 31 March. Bear in mind that I’d sent her the court documents for my PO on 30 March and the Pre-trial Conference was slated for 15 April. Want to sue me also can wait till after I will (supposedly) fail to get the PO, right? Since your lawyer said your case is “very strong”, so kancheong for what?
And only her lawyer and my lawyer were there. Hello?
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Do I want to continue with my defamation suit when she also thinks she should sue for defamation? This could last forever! And every cent I earn will go to my lawyer in the meantime. They collect upfront payment, you know?
2) I realized I couldn’t reason with someone who wanted to protect her ‘face’ (面子) at all costs. I mean… a simple apology – “Grace, I’m sorry I called you bipolar, a psycho attention-seeking cunt, ugly, kee siao, etc. Those remarks were unkind, untrue and unnecessary. I will not do it again.” End of story.
Instead, she was adamant about taking things all the way… to where, though?
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I made a public apology on my blog immediately after one person on facebook pointed out that calling someone a “pineapple blogger” (and its variations) is mean, and can be seen as “bullying” too. So I did apologize. And because Xiaxue requested for the blogpost to be removed, let me say I’m sorry again here ok?
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[Start of apology] Wendy, I am sorry I called you a pineapple blogger (and its variations) multiple times. It may not be vulgar, but it may still be hurtful. I wouldn’t want to be called a pineapple blogger myself. So I apologize, and will not call you that ever again. [End of apology]
There really is NO need to make lawyers richer by handing them the hard-earned money we earn from blogging. At least that’s how I see things.
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#3: Why do you sometimes say positive things about Xiaxue, and at other times, negative ones? Are you bipolar, like Wendy says you are?
Firstly, I’d like to maintain that I am NOT bipolar. And Wendy has no proof from any doctor that I have any sort of mental illness.
Secondly, and most importantly, I changed my attitude towards her after I realized she called me a “bitch”, a “nobody” and an “idiot”. The date is 30TH DECEMBER 2014.
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Is THIS using her private, PERSONAL account, like she tells you? ;)
When a couple gets a divorce, is it because one party has become bipolar? At first vowing that “till death do us part” and later citing “irreconcilable differences” as the reason for splitting? Bipolar is it? If one female blogger french kisses another female blogger (and gets it recorded on video) because they are such good friends, and then they later decide not to be friends anymore, and become almost sworn enemies, is one of them bipolar too?
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No! That’s stupid!
People’s attitudes toward others and things CHANGE. If I like you today, and you piss me off tomorrow, it DOES NOT mean I will continue liking you ok?
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#4: Why did you keep one “offensive” post online?
In all honesty, cross my heart and hope to die, it was truly an honest mistake. After I’d received that Letter Of Demand from her lawyer on 31st March, I’d already clicked on “Hide from timeline” on that facebook post about my suing her, because I had to let my lawyers check if it IS indeed defamatory. To avoid aggravating the matter when she had already sent me a letter of demand, I quickly hit on “Hide from timeline” first.
And I can even demonstrate to you what happened. Take this facebook post about my Business Class airticket:
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If I decide to click on ‘Hide from timeline’ now, it will disappear from my timeline:
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BUT… if you click on the ‘PHOTOS’ tab at the top, you’ll still be able to locate the post:
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Herein lies my mistake: NOT checking the PHOTOS tab before the deadline was up. I had scrolled through my timeline again and again to ensure none of the posts which Wendy felt were offensive were still around. I thought I had deleted them all. But alas, I missed out one! After deleting ENTIRE blogposts, does Wendy really think I would begrudge her one facebook post? Seriously? My mistake was in not checking thoroughly, and not having emailed her before the deadline was up to have her check if I’d left out anything, for I would definitely have deleted them. (And I only agreed to delete those blogposts because she swore under oath to stop making insulting remarks about me. And if there’s anything on my blog or facebook page that she disliked, I’m happy to remove them regardless of whether I think they are actually insulting or offensive.)
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#5:What is it about the Lee Kum Kee video that you are upset about?
I thought I’ve already blogged about it. Why ask me again? Oh right, Xiaxue had me remove the blogpost about how I think even the best bloggers can lie.
But first things first… Xiaxue now claims that she had no idea I was a blogger when she met me for the filming of the cooking video. Wow.
From the ‘Loose Stools’ blogpost:
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Watch the cooking video on her facebook page then:
https://www.facebook.com/Xiaxue.sg/videos/10152896819872431/
I shall transcribe:
Dr Leslie Tay: “Hey everyone! Welcome to the Lee Kum Kee 3 + 1 cooking video. So what we are gonna do today is we are gonna cook 3 dishes 1 soup in 30 mins. And to help me, I’ve got Wendy from xiaxue.sg, and Grace from Working With Grace.”
Xiaxue: “And most importantly of all we have Dr Leslie Tay here, famous food blogger from ieatishootipost… (blah blah blah)”
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Hey Wendy, come on… you KNEW I’m a blogger. You even asked me why I looked so familiar (maybe you’d read my book? Haha!). And Dr Leslie Tay introduced us too. I’d interviewed him for my blog, remember???
Ok nevermind. Maybe you forgot, or you just didn’t bother to watch the video that Lee Kum Kee paid you to be in, and just put it on facebook and called it an “intense cook-off”. It was neither “intense” nor a “cook-off”. If anything, it was a cooking lesson taught by Dr Tay to us.
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Perhaps someone skilled in the culinary arts (like Dr Tay) CAN pull off the ‘3 dishes 1 soup’ with his exact recipes within 30 minutes. With us as hindrances, like you already discovered, we DID NOT complete the 3 dishes and 1 soup “in just 30 minutes” like you wrote.
And people who purchase sauces in convenience packs are not exactly the chef type, right? I’d like to see you, Wendy, pull off this ‘3 dishes 1 soup’ menu that Dr Tay came up with in 30 minutes, with no video ‘cuts’ or editing. Perhaps a new Guide to Life video idea?
What I’m upset about? That Wendy thinks only other bloggers lie. Come on, we’ve all at least told one white lie before right? Even if it’s not an outright malicious one??!! And Wendy, the PROOF you want is in this blogpost, so read on till the end. ;)
And REALLY, you GOTTA watch the video you were paid to be in and tasked to share about:
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“What video, can link?” #ThatSponsoredOneLah #aiyoh #EvenYourFansKnowBetter !!!
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#6: How can you share SMRT Ltd Feedback’s “defamatory” posts or blog about SMRT Ltd Feedback’s content when Xiaxue has taken out a Protection Order against them?!
This one is very easy to answer.
Xiaxue announced on her blog on 6th Feb 2015 that she had been granted a Protection Order against SMRT Ltd Feedback. The SIXTH OF FEBRUARY. 6th Day Of The 2nd Month Of The Year!!!
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Before 6th Feb, NOTHING that SMRT Ltd Feedback posted or shared had been deemed defamatory by the Courts.
So people were free to share. Seriously. Just go and check out all the posts that Xiaxue says I am guilty of sharing because it violates the terms of the PO – all shared before 6th Feb!
And to be fair, this one wasn’t even about her. I was sharing with my followers that SMRT Ltd Feedback forgot about Data Register. But you know… someone’s obsessed with thinking people are obsessed about her:
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*** [ Before PO ] ***
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*** [ Before PO] ***
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*** [ Before PO ] ***
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*** [ *yawn* Before PO ] ***
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And, guys, by the way… you need to check these recent updates:
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And what the Australian Financial Review quoted Boss Ming as having said:
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#WINLIAOLOR Was SMRT lying? Was I wrong to share SMRT’s post? ;)
ALSO, CAN YOU FIND SOMETHING I SHARED AFTER THE SMRT PO? WHAT I SHARED BEFORE YOU GOT THE PO **DOES NOT** VIOLATE THE PO TERMS (IF ANY) BECAUSE YOU HAVE NOT EVEN BEEN GRANTED THE PO THEN!
I can’t believe I’m being made to explain this to a “Mensa genius”. LOL. I’m not even one myself.
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#7: Why did you plagiarize Shu Yin’s dayre post and put it wholesale on your blog?
Firstly, if Shu Yin is offended by it, I’m sorry.
Secondly, I did credit and link back to her dayre account, right at the top of my “plagiarized” blogpost.
Since the post is gone, I have nothing to show you. But here’s another post which some may say I also “plagiarized”. In all honesty, I was just sharing the good stuff with my readers, and I also linked back to the original post right at the top:
https://workingwithgrace.wordpress.com/2014/08/26/what-the-drownproofing-test-teaches-our-naval-divers/
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#8: Why do you say Xiaxue’s title of “Asia Pacific’s top blogger” is “self-proclaimed”?
Bad choice of words. I should not have used “self-proclaimed”. Sorry. I should have said “awarded by a company she has shares in” (which is the truth). And for all you people who have ever taken part in a lucky draw, you know that if you want to take part, there are terms such as how you must not be an employee or a family member of an employee of the company organizing the giveaway, right? What about taking part in blog awards given out by a company you are a shareholder in? Do you think there is a conflict of interest if you take part as a shareholder???
ALSO, the Asia Pacific region is HUGE! Who dares to say he/she is the top blogger in this entire region?! There’s China, India, Indonesia, Malaysia, USA, Korea, among a whole list of other countries:
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I think as bloggers, we should exercise some humility.
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#9: Why Do You Need A PO? You Are Not 100% Innocent Yourself! That’s Why You FAILED To Get A PO!
Well, the main reason is because Wendy tends to go overboard with her comments sometimes. And her reach and influence is far greater than mine. Sure, I called her a pineapple blogger. Apologized.
I can tolerate being called a Bitch because honestly-speaking, which woman has not bitched about another person before? But don’t hit below-the-belt. THAT I cannot tolerate.
YOU will want a PO as well, if you received all these vulgarities, insults and untruths hurled at you:
“I suggest you see a psychiatrist about being bipolar”
“You can also talk to the psychiatrist about you(sic) delusions of grandeur, thinking you are even mildly qualified to conduct blogging workshops or pen a blogging book when you are a nobody”
“you are an absolute psycho attention-seeking cunt”
“I look forward to seeing my post on your blog as your eyes shine brightly while you salivate”
“Is your book completely copied too?”
“you are bipolar. See a doctor”
“I will see you in court”
“raving like a madwoman”
“Yes I’m saying you are ugly”
“And yes I’m threatening you with a motherfucking lawsuit if you repost that SMRT exposé”
“tell people (all 4 of them who read your pathetic blog)”
“you are clearly a little kee siao”
“You can put this episode on that embarrassing sidebar on your blog with all your mediocre achievements”
At the Malaysia Social Media Week, while Tun Dr Mahathir was speaking, I realized that Wendy had tagged me on Instagram with a picture of mine that she had vandalized. Apparently, I had been tagged because she wanted me to know that she had blogged about me.
It was definitely uncool, and hitting below-the-belt. Thankfully, I did not read the blogpost, kept my wits about me, and delivered well on stage.
Before the Malaysia Social Media Week:
15th April 2015: Pre-Trial Conference (PTC) – I had been advised to stay at home and get some rest, instead of getting ‘grilled’ by a lawyer in court as I had no legal training before. So I did. We were both represented by our lawyers.
I was eager to reach a settlement during the PTC because I would be flying off to KL on 21st April 2015 for the Malaysia Social Media Week.
I’ve already shared this earlier:
My Respondent sent a lawyer to represent her, I did not state that I was being stalked/had death threats made against me/have hate sites about me that constitute a serious harm to my well-being, PLUS my Respondent had removed all her comments made about me a few days before the Pre-Trial Conference. Also, her lawyer was instructed to send me her affidavit and written submission THE DAY BEFORE the PTC, “out of goodwill”.
So the judge and I agreed that there was no longer a need for a PO since my Respondent seemed very agreeable, and even undertook not to make any further comments about me after the PTC. And so I withdrew my application for the PO. Why pay more money and go for mediation, right? Since the judge already said it’s gonna be costly to go all the way and fight for a PO, and my Respondent seems, erm… friendly?
Realized too late that she’s not at all friendly.
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#10: WHY WERE YOU RUDE TO WENDY CHENG’S LAWYER?
Wendy wrote in her ‘Loose Stools’ blogpost that I was rude to her lawyer (friend) –
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Sorry, I don’t think I was rude. If you are referring to Fong Wei Li’s email to me on 20th April, and my response, well, here are the subject titles of the emails and you can tell me if I was being rude:
His “Lunch Tomorrow” and My “(Rejecting) Lunch tomorrow with Fong Wei Li”
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On 20th April 2015, 6:24pm, I received an email from Fong Wei Li with the subject title “Lunch tomorrow”.
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My heart nearly stopped beating. Why is HER lawyer asking me out for lunch??? I’ve never even had a coffee with my lawyers, as it was always business only in their office.
I responded to his email and cc-ed his bosses, and turned down his lunch invitation (which he later said was sent out by error, but whatever yah?). He was upset that I had cc-ed his bosses and emailed me to say this:
“Note that, by having circulated the contents of your last email to third parties (notwithstanding such third parties being members of my firm), you have opened yourself up to being the subject of possible legal action, should I decide to bring a case against you.”
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WAH LAU!
Email cc-ed to his bosses, I can also get sued? :(
So I dare not show you screenshots of his (or my) emails. You can ask Fong Wei Li for them if you want. Or if Xiaxue publishes them, it means I have permission to share our email thread.
And this brings me to that question which some have been asking:
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“WHY EMAIL THE MINISTER OF LAW AND OTHER MINISTERS AH? WANT TO WASTE THEIR TIME IS IT?”
I felt the ‘PO’ system, as it stands, can be easily abused. And perhaps, the notion of a “Protection Order” is not being accorded the respect it deserves…
From the ‘Loose Stools’ blogpost: “But friendship wasn’t the reason I chose him…”
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On March 22nd, Xiaxue made some very mind-boggling statements on Fong Wei Li’s Facebook profile picture. [Before he threatens to sue me again, let me just say that the pictures are ‘public’ on Facebook, and you don’t even have to be Fong Wei Li’s friend to view the pictures, and the comments.]
See? I didn’t ‘Add’ him as ‘Friend’ ah:
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Fong with what looks like a very long… stick:
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If you don’t know the meaning of the word “appendage”, it usually refers to protruding body parts, such as legs, or erm… sexual organs.
I definitely blushed a little reading about the “appendage” but that’s not the point. I was upset that this term ‘PO’ was used so flippantly,so readily, so daringly. I was also shocked by the way a lawyer would threaten (even jokingly, perhaps?) to “harass” a client/friend with “it” (which is presumably the “appendage”). I mean… Wendy said she chose him because he is “well versed in the Harassment Act”. Wait, is the legal “Harassment Act” as in POHA that I’m thinking of the same one she (or her lawyer) is talking about? Haiyah. I am SO confused now. :(
I wrote to the Law Minister regarding the POHA and how it can be easily abused / not accorded the respect it deserves.
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WHY DID YOU POKE FUN AT WENDY’S NAME AND SAY THAT NUFFNANG’S BLOGGERS MAKE THE SAME MISTAKES AS GUSHCLOUD’S?!
[From Xiaxue’s Blog]
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1) Cos Xiaxue wrote “Dear Grace, or lack thereof” – This is why I wrote:
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I didn’t even state “Yan Yan” and actually… no one figured it out. #cheapthrill But, you know, just pointing out that we both have names which can be easily made fun of. So why do it to each other?
2) And Xiaxue also wrote “… you better have proof when you say shit like “NN’s young bloggers make the same mistakes.” Where did you see NN bloggers participate in smear campaigns? So some of them mask ads. They are exposed thoroughly by Gushcloud, why do I have to lift a finger?”
Ahh… be careful what you wish for… :)
#1: Is this AD MASKING OR NOT? You decide!
On February 9th, I noticed that a Nuffnang Blogger, @mongabong, had posted about a Nivea product on Instagram:
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I responded to her IG post and asked her why she took that drastic step of “shaving everyday since (she) was a little girl”. Little girls have armpit hair meh? She responded with some comment I cannot recall anymore, and then she deleted my IG comment. I swear I wasn’t rude or anything. I took a screenshot and did the post on my own facebook page you see above.
And it seems that most people agree with me that “little girls” don’t really have armpit hair that needs shaving off “everyday” lah.
I had commented on mongabong’s post when it had 155 likes. She deleted my comment. The post now has 761 likes:
And no comments…
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But, I mean, aiyah she forgot to label it as “sponsored” or “ad” just once mah. Maybe she really has a bad memory?
Then she did a second post:
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Ok, so… is this a masked ad?
And how do I ensure this mongabong is INDEED a Nuffnang blogger?
Ask Google:
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Wah! I’m not the #1 Most Honest Blogger in Singapore lah, but I don’t try to trick people like that:
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Anyway, Mong Chin is likely 22 this year, and is from Nuffnang.. So yah… I have proof that “NN’s young bloggers make the same mistakes”. I was not lying or trying to antagonize Xiaxue when I commented on Walter Lim’s FB post.
I JUST DID NOT WANT to do a Big Nuffnang Exposé blogpost! WHAT GOOD DOES IT DO FOR ME? Let her learn on her own lah… eventually. But now, to clear my name… Sorry ah. People want proof, I give them proof.
#2: What about this next example – Is it a Smear Campaign?
This one is even more interesting because Xiaxue can claim she does not know mongabong since Nuffnang has so many influencers. But what about another bong? Namely, bongqiuqiu, her bestie?
http://bongqiuqiu.blogspot.sg/2011/08/ad-warning-check-where-your-fresh-milk.html
In an advertorial for Marigold, Bongqiuqiu picked on Meiji, Greenfields and Magnolia:
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She even went to the extent of doing a ‘survey’ among friends first to get their opinions about the origins of Meiji, Greenfields and Magnolia milk.
After stating that Magnolia milk is labeled “product of Singapore”, she points out that the origins of the milk is “confidential” and that she noted “Singapore does not have a milk farming industry apart from niche goat farms in Lim Chu Kang.” So, she’s saying the company is not aboveboard???
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She also wrote that Greenfields has “the MOST misleading carton info for fresh milk”, and that Indonesian cow farming results in the “cheapest” brand of fresh milk. OUCH for Greenfields!
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Meanwhile, of course, the brand she is advertising for (Marigold) is a gift from heaven:
Something about “fresh air, sunshine, and green pastures“
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Bongqiuqiu: “The best is never the cheapest for consumable products! The best states BIG AND CLEAR, confident and proud of where their products is(sic) from”
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Yah… but Greenfields DID state BIG AND CLEAR leh:
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“fresh milk from DAIRY COWS IMPORTED FROM AUSTRALIA” is right at the top!
Do you want Greenfields to state that it’s “100% Australian-Indonesian fresh milk” because the cows have ‘migrated’ to Indonesia, and the milk they produce should adequately reflect their current location?!!!
Haiyah. Anyway, does this constitute smearing?
Hilariously, ACCORDING TO XIAXUE, YES, IT DOES:
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Something about breaching the Singapore Code of Advertising Practice !!!
“11. Non-denigration
11.1 Advertisements should not unfairly attack or discredit other products, organisations or professions directly or by implication.”
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Perhaps Greenfields has a business model which keeps costs low, keeps milk fresh, keeps cows happy and healthy, and streamlines their operations so they can offer the BEST and LOWEST price to consumers? How can Bongqiuqiu say that Greenfields doesn’t give us the best (fresh) milk and that “The best is never the cheapest for consumable products!” ??? Did she send the milk samples for lab testing to check for contamination, nutrient levels, etc?
So… will Magnolia, Greenfields and Meiji go after Bongqiuqiu? She does have over 257K Instagram followers, 39.3K Twitter followers, and 25K Facebook followers. What she blogs about does have a significant reach.
And yes, I think I have given Xiaxue my answer to her questions of:
“… you better have proof when you say shit like “NN’s young bloggers make the same mistakes.” Where did you see NN bloggers participate in smear campaigns? So some of them mask ads. They are exposed thoroughly by Gushcloud, why do I have to lift a finger?”
Having met and spoken with people who know Althea and Vincent from Gushcloud, I can safely say they are terrible at trying to get anyone or any company “thoroughly exposed“. Which is why I blogged about how your “exposé” blogposts have “finesse”. Even if I dislike a person, I can be FAIR about giving credit where it is due. Also, even if everyone calls a person “plastic” for having had plastic surgery done, I am still capable of being FAIR and pointing out that while the good looks are artificial, the person STILL looks good.
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“SO, GRACE, WHY DIDN’T YOU EXPOSE THEM EARLIER?! WHY MAKE SNIDE REMARKS BY THE SIDELINES?!”
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It is not in my interest or nature to do so! I have been following QiuQiu on Instagram and I am very impressed whenever she posts about looking auntie-like at home (because I look like that too) and that picture of her with super-messy hair and looking tired after the birth of her child was a gem – She’s such a genuine person that it’s hard not to like her. As for Mong Chin, I think she’s just very young lah (like Eunice Annabel) and all of us made mistakes when we were very young, and even when we get older.
SO PLEASE, after reading this post, DO NOT IN ANY WAY HARASS THESE TWO LADIES.
I just want Xiaxue to know that one should not laugh at other people’s “loose stools” symptoms if one has experienced diarrhoea before. Similarly, one should not point out the filth in a neighbor’s toilet bowl, till one has cleaned up the sh*t in one’s own loo.
Is this fair?
I think so. I don’t try to be right all the time. I just try to be fair.
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QN: WHY DID YOU STATE IN THE POLICE REPORT THAT HER HAIR IS BLUE? ARE YOU COLOR BLIND?
There is a very simple reason for this. I’ve already said that she has “rapidly-changing hair color” and she happily did a GIF for it. It’s due to the limited options available on the e-police report website. I was looking for “purple” but the closest I got was “blue”: [*And please note that an e-report does not require you to head down to a police station. It’s just e-filing and you can print out a report for recording purposes, that’s all. No waste of police resources or taxpayers’ money.]
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According to SPF, a suspect can only have either black, blonde, blue, brown, grey, red or white hair:
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And I’m quite sure there’s blue in there somewhere:
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#colorblindmyfoot
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WHY DID YOU MENTION THE LOOSE STOOLS?
Because I knew that someone who is not my bully would never take advantage of my health condition to ridicule me.
And she did…
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I wrote it down with a pen instead of typing it out like in the rest of my affidavit submissions because it would STAND OUT. :)
Yes, so I blamed one day of diarrhoea on Xiaxue. It could have been due to the food I ate that day OR due to anxiety-related diarrhoea caused by her stress-inducing attacks via FB:
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I was under a lot of stress because Xiaxue decided that I was bipolar and kept harping on the fictitious mental illness she came up with for me.
And yes, diarrhoea can be embarrassing but WHO HAS NEVER HAD DIARRHOEA BEFORE? All you losers who keep asking about my loose stools and sending images of toilet paper, oh gee, I hope you guys never have a day of diarrhoea in your life, or never run out of toilet paper when you desperately need it ‘cos you know, there’s a toilet paper thief among us. ;)
I don’t mind sharing about an embarrassing condition which affects some people when they are under intense stress, and at least I am not an embarrassment who ridicules others by picking on their weak spots. I have never made fun of her actual height after I found out the figure and included it in my e-police report (she hid that part in her blogpost ‘cos she doesn’t want you to know) or her plastic surgery experiences either (no “plasticzilla” references from me, though Dawn Yang has been called that by you-know-who, because I don’t think anyone should be called that).
The difference between XX and me? I know where to draw the line.
She, however, on top of showing my medical report to the world, has also stolen pictures of me off my blog and Migme account, and used them in her shitty blogpost. I think it reeks of hypocrisy when someone can accuse SMRT Ltd Feedback of vandalising her child’s photo and apply for a PO against them, and then steal my photo and vandalise it to an even greater extent:
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Is it now OK to steal photos off people’s blogs and use them without permission?
If so… here are some of our top blogger, courtesy of Guru Gossiper (credit: http://gurugossiper.com/viewtopic.php?f=152&t=16113&start=925)
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Yes yes, I would look SO ugly standing next to you, Xiaxue. I will go to Korea and repent, ok?
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XIAXUE: “WHO IS GRACE TAN?”
No Mensa genius for sure. And quite an opportunist too! If people want to send me toilet paper to ‘help’ me with my loose stools issue, I unashamedly ask them to send me Hello Kitty ones. Opportunistic mah. Why? Cannot?
Then I don’t have to steal pink toilet paper.
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What the hell?! YOU MUST BE KIDDING ME?! ASIA-PAC TOP BLOGGER HAS TO STEAL TOILET PAPER?!
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NO, SERIOUSLY, ARE YOU FREAKING KIDDING ME?! NO MONEY TO BUY TOILET PAPER? HOW COME?
OMG… DO YOU REALLY WANT TO BE KNOWN AS A TOILET PAPER THIEF?
#laughdieme
Oh wait… shit. Better not laugh too hard. Scarly get bowel movements again. And for sure she will not lend me some toilet paper… because SHE USES A LOT OF IT:
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#HousewarmingGuestsUseStolenToiletPaper #TopBloggerUsesCheapoToiletPaper #TopBloggerUsesALotOfToiletPaper #AlsoHasLooseStools ?
Moral of the story: Don’t use so many toilet paper images in your blogpost about me, and think you are a freaking genius (oho so hilarious). Spamming virtual toilet paper while stealing real ones and depriving other toilet users of toilet paper is just plain MEAN.
So, who is Grace Tan? WHO CARES?! The people who love me, do. The people who don’t? YAWN.
All I’m asking is that you think twice before you send out a nasty message online. I have had my fair share. Here’s just a sampling:
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Some lousy fella on Twitter even went to tag the Malaysia Social Media Week organizers in a bid to discredit me because I have, in his opinion, too few Twitter followers. Thankfully, the MSMW team spoke up on my behalf. Eternally grateful, guys! :)
Another fella even went to tag my new friends from Malaysia and harass me and them on Twitter:
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To all those haters: Oh no, you’ve all got it wrong. My career is not over. It has only just begun.
#DRAGONSlayer #AlsoCatchesToiletPaperThieves
#SayNoToBullying #AndOtherUselessHashtags
*Photo Credit: Jenna Marbles’ ‘The Face’ picture is from here.